Friday, December 19, 2008

Church Discipline

First of all, I am not sure why this is newsworthy on Fox News. The story (for those of you who might not click on it) is about a woman who is whining to the press that the church she used to attend, and that her children still attend, is about to publicly point out her sin to the church congregation. What baffles me is that she doesn't want her sin told to the whole congregation because of the embarassment that it might cause her children, but she has decided to talk to the media to make it national news on Fox News (and maybe others).

Church discipline is a sensitive matter in churches and should be left to the individual congregations. What this story does not inform the public is that it appears (at least from the church's website) that this is a conservative congregation which takes church membership very seriously. New members are required to attend a membership class before being accepted into the congregation. I am sure that this membership class informs prospective members about the discipline policies of the church since most do, especially in churches that take church membership seriously enough to have a new members class before being accepted as a member. Another thing that this article overlooks is that, although this lady may have informed those in the church that she will never attend there again, she is still a member of the church. Therefore, the church has a duty to its members, and this church believes that part of that duty is carrying out church discipline for matters addressed by Paul and Jesus. Paul makes it clear in Corinthians that those who are caught up in sexual immorality and refuse to repent should be treated as unbelievers. This combined with Jesus' instructions on how to carry out church discipline give this church a biblical basis for going through the stages of church discipline on this unrepentant member.

No one knows the full circumstances behind the church's decision to carry out discipline for this church member. A church is meant to be a place where believers are able to help each other in the struggle through sin, and the members should love each other enough to encourage someone not to continue to live in sin. Church membership should be limited to believers, and quite frankly, this woman is conducting herself as a non-believer. I am encouraged to see a church that is trying to carry out the duty of church discipline and that is loving its members enough to confront sin. This does not mean that what this church is doing is completely correct - we do live in a fallen world and most attempts by a church to fully conform to God's word will likely fall short. However, the letter written to this woman (which can be read through the news article linked above) seems to be in line with God's Word.

My prayer for this church is that God will use this situation to bless this church in the persecution that is sure to come in the next days and weeks. Somehow God is able to take persecution and turn it into triumph for His kingdom. I pray that this situation will be no different.

Although I did not read it close enough to know if I agree with everything, here is another opinion about this story.
Pyromaniacs: BREAKING NEWS: church dares to practice NT Christianity!

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

I am not sure if this church is being biblical in carrying out this instance of discipline. If the woman has severed her ties to the church by terminating her membership, she is not accountable to them and they have no more responsibility for her than they do for a lost person or a member of another church (depending on her actions after severing the membership). The fact that they would publicly state her sins after she has severed her ties to the church strikes me as a total abrogation of appropriate disciplinary practice and borders on simple bullying.

Baylordia said...

I guess it becomes difficult when a member terminates their membership in an effort to keep from being disciplined. I can understand a church wanting to go through with discipline, but I can also understand the argument that the church no longer has a duty to go through with discipline. I also wonder how good an idea it is for that to be a Sunday morning subject instead of a Sunday night or Wednesday night subject since the point of discipline is not to embarrass but to try to lead a person to repentance.

That having been said, it is sad that this woman is willing to remain in such a state of sin that she is willing to go to the press and make it public to the world, but does not want the church to make it public.